Hi hi hi. It's been a long awesome day! I don't know but I still think I have things to say about relationships. I might be talking out of present experience or I might just be saying what I have noticed around me.....maybe friends or just movies I watched. Why do guys activate their bestest behaviour when they are trying to get a girl but once they get her they don't think it is necessary to continue with such sweet manner they portrayed during the wooing process?? Ofcourse that is a rhetorical question but it kills me to know why guys do that. All so sweet keeping up with her, calling every 30minutes, checking up and making sure she's fine,she has eaten bla bla bla. Now she finally says yes to you because she thinks you are 'the one'. Days pass by and then the drifting begins....she calls you more...you hardly even flash talkless of call.....she's the only one putting all the effort to try and make the relationship work.....you still don't notice you are doing anything wrong.....she gets tired....then no communication at all but she's still hoping you will notice and just take a bold step and talk things out but NO! Are we all forgetting that a relationship is a two-way thing? It takes the two individuals to make a healthy relationship....I don't know why guys do this but it's really sad because I just have this strong feeling that this is one of the reasons why relationships don't last nowadays. I also hear stuffs like 'he's only dating her for sex' Woooow if that's actually true then I'm disappointed in such guys oo... there's more to maturity than just age! And if at this stage of your life you are still chasing that girl just to get under her skirt then brother you need prayers! All I have to say is if you are not ready to be serious don't even try starting up a relationship with any innocent girl. That would be all for now. I'm listening to 'Sound Sultan's Natural Something' for this post!
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